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  • Love and Politics: How Successful Couples Manage Their Differences Love and Politics: How Successful Couples Manage Their Differences

    Love and Politics: How Successful Couples Manage Their Differences

Love and Politics: How Successful Couples Manage Their Differences

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Are you one of those rare people who hasn’t had an argument with someone about politics?

How about someone close to you? Like maybe your spouse or partner?

When it comes to politics, there’s not much that my husband and I agree on.

And we’re by no means the only ones.

According to a recent Pew report, political affiliation has become the […]

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  • Do This To Save Your Marriage- Part 2: Learn to Complain Well Do This To Save Your Marriage- Part 2: Learn to Complain Well

    Do This To Save Your Marriage- Part 2: Learn to Complain Well

Do This To Save Your Marriage- Part 2: Learn to Complain Well

When was the last time you had a disagreement, an argument, or a big fight with your spouse or partner?  Was it the same ongoing disagreement you’ve had over and over?  (more…)

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  • Do This to Save Your Marriage:  How to Stay Calm and Speak Up. Do This to Save Your Marriage:  How to Stay Calm and Speak Up.

    Do This to Save Your Marriage: How to Stay Calm and Speak Up.

Do This to Save Your Marriage: How to Stay Calm and Speak Up.

Wife (taking her seat):  I think I’m done.

Husband (looking confused):  With what?

Wife:  The marriage. I think I’m done with the marriage… It’s not working. (more…)

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    Blindsided by Estrangement: Can You Love Your Child Right Out of Your Life? Blindsided by Estrangement: Can You Love Your Child Right Out of Your Life?

    Blindsided by Estrangement: Can You Love Your Child Right Out of Your Life?

Blindsided by Estrangement: Can You Love Your Child Right Out of Your Life?

Blindsided by Estrangement:  Can You Love Your Child Right Out Of Your Life? 

Abuse? Neglect? It’s easy to understand why an adult child decides to have nothing to do with a parent who subjected them to either.

Parental alienation from a messy divorce? When kids are forced to choose sides, it’s no surprise that adult-child estrangement is an unfortunate […]

  • The Relationship Pulse Check: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Reconnect and Recharge The Relationship Pulse Check: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Reconnect and Recharge

    The Relationship Pulse Check: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Reconnect and Recharge

The Relationship Pulse Check: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Reconnect and Recharge

The Relationship Pulse Check is more than a “date night” bandaid approach to connecting with your partner. Think of it as a way to safeguard your connection and supercharge what makes it special. (more…)

By |April, 24th, 2022|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on The Relationship Pulse Check: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Reconnect and Recharge
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    Dead Certain You’re Unhappy, But Dead Set Against Divorce? Dead Certain You’re Unhappy, But Dead Set Against Divorce?

    Dead Certain You’re Unhappy, But Dead Set Against Divorce?

Dead Certain You’re Unhappy, But Dead Set Against Divorce?

Miserable in your marriage? These days it’s easy to feel disappointed when a spouse doesn’t live up to our overload of expectations: best friend, workout buddy, hot sex partner, confidante, mentor, financial planner, and life coach all rolled into one.

By |February, 15th, 2022|Happiness, Love & Marriage|Comments Off on Dead Certain You’re Unhappy, But Dead Set Against Divorce?
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    Mom Guilt?  How to Give Yourself– and Your Loved Ones– a Break. Mom Guilt?  How to Give Yourself– and Your Loved Ones– a Break.

    Mom Guilt?  How to Give Yourself– and Your Loved Ones– a Break.

Mom Guilt?  How to Give Yourself– and Your Loved Ones– a Break.

“Good moms don’t have fun without their kids around.”

You might be surprised at the woman who confessed this thought and when it crossed her mind.

The thought intruded into the mind of Jessica Rohr, Ph.D., a professor at Baylor College of Medicine. It barged in while Rohr was celebrating her anniversary with her husband (who, by the way, reported […]

By |January, 18th, 2022|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on Mom Guilt?  How to Give Yourself– and Your Loved Ones– a Break.
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    Empathy 101 for A-Holes:  A Love Story Empathy 101 for A-Holes:  A Love Story

    Empathy 101 for A-Holes:  A Love Story

Empathy 101 for A-Holes:  A Love Story

 

“The reason I’m here is my wife is unhappy with me.  I’m worried about her because I think she’s really depressed.  It’s not like her to lie around all the time.  She’s still taking good care of the kids, but just about everything else has tanked.” 

It wasn’t an unusual way for a counseling session […]

By |October, 17th, 2021|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on Empathy 101 for A-Holes:  A Love Story