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  • Look Back in Order to Look Forward [video] Look Back in Order to Look Forward [video]

    Look Back in Order to Look Forward [video]

Look Back in Order to Look Forward [video]

Although I’m certainly not new to Louisville, I will remember 2016 as the year it occurred to me “I feel like I really belong here.”

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By |February, 27th, 2017|Happiness|Comments Off on Look Back in Order to Look Forward [video]
  • BUILDING RESILIENCE:  How to Get a Grip, Get Back Up and Go On BUILDING RESILIENCE:  How to Get a Grip, Get Back Up and Go On

    BUILDING RESILIENCE: How to Get a Grip, Get Back Up and Go On

BUILDING RESILIENCE: How to Get a Grip, Get Back Up and Go On

I recently had my first appointment with my new primary care physician.  As she scanned the medical history of my parents, she paused when she got to the cause of death.  “So… your father was … murdered?” (more…)

By |December, 12th, 2016|Resilience|Comments Off on BUILDING RESILIENCE: How to Get a Grip, Get Back Up and Go On
  • How to Deal With a Difficult Person — Without Becoming Part of the Problem How to Deal With a Difficult Person — Without Becoming Part of the Problem

    How to Deal With a Difficult Person — Without Becoming Part of the Problem

How to Deal With a Difficult Person — Without Becoming Part of the Problem

One of my extended family members died recently.  When people offered their condolences, without hesitation I found myself replying, “It’s the kind of death that is a blessing.” (more…)

By |August, 2nd, 2016|Uncategorized|Comments Off on How to Deal With a Difficult Person — Without Becoming Part of the Problem
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    Are Women Really Better at Relationships? Are Women Really Better at Relationships?

    Are Women Really Better at Relationships?

Are Women Really Better at Relationships?

It was with equal amounts of anticipation and dread that I read the R. Chase article “What Men Want.”  I laughed out loud when I read the following exchange between the author and a male friend:

“I once had a conversation with a friend of mine about women.  We were talking about a girl that, while extremely attractive, was a […]

By |July, 2nd, 2016|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on Are Women Really Better at Relationships?
  • Change a Word, Change Your Brain Change a Word, Change Your Brain

    Change a Word, Change Your Brain

Change a Word, Change Your Brain

People naturally talk to themselves.  Whether it’s the out-loud self-talk of young children as they learn to master a new task or our grownup unspoken private talk, it seems we have an almost continuous internal conversation with ourselves. (more…)

By |May, 3rd, 2016|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Change a Word, Change Your Brain
  • How to Be in a Relationship — Without Losing Yourself How to Be in a Relationship — Without Losing Yourself

    How to Be in a Relationship — Without Losing Yourself

How to Be in a Relationship — Without Losing Yourself

Having love in our lives is important to most of us. Numerous studies indicate that intimate relationships are the single most important source of life satisfaction. (more…)

By |February, 2nd, 2016|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on How to Be in a Relationship — Without Losing Yourself
  • How to Perform Under Pressure How to Perform Under Pressure

    How to Perform Under Pressure

How to Perform Under Pressure

Do you believe that you perform better under pressure? Do you do your best creative thinking under a severe pressure deadline? Do you worry about a child or colleague that chokes under pressure? (more…)

By |January, 5th, 2016|Resilience, Success: Conflict|Comments Off on How to Perform Under Pressure
  • HOOKUP NATION: Why Has Hooking Up Replaced Dating? HOOKUP NATION: Why Has Hooking Up Replaced Dating?

    HOOKUP NATION: Why Has Hooking Up Replaced Dating?

HOOKUP NATION: Why Has Hooking Up Replaced Dating?

Whether you’re concerned about the young men and women in your life, reflecting on your own experiences, or contemplating the future of love and sex in general, you can’t help but wonder what’s driving the widespread cultural shift to hooking up versus dating.  Why do young women engage in behaviors that often appear to be unsatisfying, coercive and risky?  […]

By |August, 8th, 2015|Love & Marriage|Comments Off on HOOKUP NATION: Why Has Hooking Up Replaced Dating?